Nani Atazungumza kwa Niaba yao?


“Watoto wa sikuhzi hawana adabu,hawaheshimu wakubwa,wanaongea lugha chafu,hawavai mavazi ya heshima,wala hawafanyi vizuri katika kazi wanazoepewa”. Hii ilikua sauti ya mwanamke akilalamika kuhusu kizazi kilichozaliwa mwaka 1990 na kuendelea.
Labda yupo sahihi, au Labda hayupo sahihi, simhukumu, lakini sentensi yake ilinikumbusha kuhusu neno moja Garbage in-Garbage out, kwenye komputa na Nyanja nyingine, linatumika kueleze wazo kwamba ukiweka kitu kibovu au chenye thamani hafifu utapata matokeo mabovu.
Kabla hatujalalamika kuhusu namna wanaishi tuanglie nini tunawapa. Kwanza watoto wanakua kwenye mazingira ya kelele(miziki, matusi, na televisheni). Na hata kwa sasa maeneo ya vijijini ambapo familia zinaweza kukosa hata radio, watoto wanasikia fujo hizo kwenye pikipiki (bodaboda) ambao wanipiga miziki hiyo kwa uhuru barabarani. Watoto hawa wanachukua yote, na kutoka na umri wao, hawajui kipi bora kwao, hawajui ni mavazi gani wavae, miziki gani wasikilize, magazeti au majarida au vitabu gani wasome, wala hawajui ni kipindi gani cha kuangalia kwenye televishion. Wanakua katika mazingira ambayo wazazi wako shughulini na walimu pia, hakuna mtu anachukua jukumu la kuwapa taarifa sahihi.  Siku moja nilisikia mzazi mmoja anasema “Nafurahi mwanangu ana miaka 5 sasa ninampeleka kwa walimu wamfundhishe adabu” wakati huohuo walimu wanalalamika wanafunzi hawana adabu ni tunaacha mzigo kwa wazazi wao.Wazazi wanatumia muda mwingi katika kazi na biashara ndogondogo, ambalo ni jambo jema, lakini hawapati hata muda wa saa moja kuongea na watoto wao au hata kuwafundisha maadili.
Kama hali ipo hivi, tunategemea nini kuhusu tabia zao? Watatoa wanachopokea. Tunalalamika kuhusu  tabia ya kizazi kipya bila kuangalia kwa makini kitu kitu gani kimewafanya wawe hivyo. Kizazi hiki hakina tatizo lolote, ila wanatoa kile wanachopokea, huwezi kupanda mti wa limao ukategemea tikitimaji litakua hapo.
Wazazi, Walimu na Majirahi ni wajibu wetu sote kuchukua jukumu la kuhakikisha kizazi hiki kinapata taarifa sahihi ili wawe raia wema baadae.
Imeandikwa: 2 Machi 2018, Gloria Busungu
Maada : Familia, Marafiki, na Jamii

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